I have a friend who is getting married in the beginning of September (in about 4 weeks). She has mentioned on the phone that she was planning on inviting me (but that was months ago and her plans may have changed), but I haven't gotten an invite.
There's two possibilites:
1. I'm invited.
2. I'm not invited.
Seems that she has sent out the invites, seeing how it's only four more weeks until the big day. So:
1. She either sent me one.
2. Or she didn't.
If she sent me one, it may have gotten lost in the mail or some such stuff. This, apparently, happens all the time. One of the cousins didn't come to my graduation party, and we found out months later that they never received their invitation. The question is, if this happened, will she call to find out about my missing RSVP? And when will she do that?
How, dear Abbynet, can I find out whether I'm invited or not without making my friend feel bad if she didn't invite me? And, perhaps more importantly, without making it clear to my friend that if I'm not invited, it will make me sad? And also without turning into the dorky person who tries pathetically to get invited to an event where she is not wanted?
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